the business of breakups

A blog about breakups and the practice of law by writer and family law lawyer Zara Suleman provides resources and reflections beyond the law – a holistic approach to heartbreak, divorce, separation, and moving on.

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“Very Alone” – Learnings from the Emergency Department

I had a kidney infection. It was super painful. Unlike any pain I had felt before. I felt alone. What can we do so that our clients are not so “Very Alone” too?
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Affairs of the Heart – Learnings from Beyoncé and Jay-Z

Affairs, cheating, stepping out, etc. on your spouse can create undercurrents (and sometimes full out tidal waves) in finalizing family law cases.
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A Broken Heart

Matters of heartbreak are complicated. What actually physically happens to cause one’s heart to break?
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Violence against women is not an anamoly

Not an Anomaly: Violence Against Women in Family Law

What if we practiced family law like violence against women was not an anomaly but a likelihood? A reality?
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Family Law, kindness, and compassion can make lawyers anxious

A “Kind” of Practice

If we want lawyers to have longevity and health (in all forms) in the practice of law we are going to need to model kindness more; speak about kindness, embrace it and practice it.
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Your FILE, Your client’s LIFE

Our clients live with the long-term consequences of their family law matters. Our conduct as lawyers on a file can make this process better or worse and we need to check ourselves as family law practitioners and really listen to our clients.
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