the business of breakups

A blog about breakups and the practice of law by writer and family law lawyer Zara Suleman provides resources and reflections beyond the law – a holistic approach to heartbreak, divorce, separation, and moving on.

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Dear Family Law: What Will it Take?

We have to recognize if we do not meaningfully and consistently address violence against women in family law we will continue to leave women at risk.
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Your Children Know You Are Getting a Divorce. They May Even Know Before You Do.

The reality is that how, when and by whom the children are told (and not told) and in what manner can have a profound impact not only on children’s experience of the divorce but also on their future relationships.
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Unmasking Professional Conduct: It’s not about Incivility, it’s about Racism and White Privilege

Indigenous, Black, and racialized lawyers (people/communities) experience micro-oppressions on a regular basis. Calls to stop incivility do nothing to address the impact of systemic racism or the continuation of white privilege and practice in the law.
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Why Are We Still Missing?

How can it be that I can take a course in family law (or any law course) and there are no BIPOC faculty or any information in the course addressing BIPOC issues?
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Surviving Law School and the Profession of Law

Surviving law school and the practice and profession of law as an Indigenous, Black, or racialized lawyer can be exhausting. Having some resources can be helpful. A few essential reads/quotes…
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When someone shows you who they are, believe them; the first time

People are always telling you who they are – in how they treat you, speak to you, do not speak to you. As humans, we are informing each other all of the time about who we are and who we are not. Trust your gut.
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